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THE THIRD STEP

Dream Reality: Part Three

In part one, we introduced the importance of setting clear goals—your “Haves”—and then complimented our Haves with the second component, who you need to Be to achieve your Haves.

The next step is to connect your Be (your identity) to your Have (your results) with what you need to Do (your actions).

The example we came up with for the Me strand:

• "I am a Mesomorph (Be) who weighs 135 pounds (Have)."

The example we came up with for the Them strand:

• "I am a Millionaire (Be) who possesses one million dollars (Have)."

Remember, we have dedicated one quarter of this year to each of the four strands of life. We are to dedicate one-quarter of the year to concentrating on one strand because science tells us we are more likely to find success that way.

Now, let’s look at what you must Do to make your Dream a Reality for the Me Strand.

DO

It's time to build a bridge between our example, Be and Have

"Be" I am a Mesomorph, and your "Have," who weighs 135 pounds.

THE HOPE BRIDGE

I call the bridge that connects your Have with your Be The HOPE Bridge. The components of The HOPE Bridge are:

• The Foundation
• The Vehicle
• The Fuel

THE FOUNDATION

The Foundation of The HOPE Bridge is REAL GOD-MADE FOOD.

If you want to switch from your current to a healthier menu, the first step is to eat food as our grandparents ate. Food that wasn't adulterated with homemade chemicals. What that means is to avoid processed foods.

Processed foods have been altered from their natural state in some way, generally by adding artificial flavors, preservatives, and other additives. They also contain refined grains, added sugar, excess sodium, synthetic additives, and other ingredients that can diminish their nutritional quality.

Real God-made Food contains one or very few ingredients, which are usually things you recognize (e.g., “beef,” “broccoli,” etc.).

Processed Human-made Food: Usually has a long ingredient list, including added sugars, flavor enhancers, colorings, and chemical preservatives.

Real God-made Food has natural fibers intact that keep you satisfied for longer.

Processed Human-made Food removes most of the fiber.

Authentic God-made Foods are centered around whole, nutrient-dense foods linked with reduced risks of chronic diseases such as heart disease, diabetes, and obesity.

Processed Human Food contributes to weight gain, inflammatory responses, and other health issues.

Stay tuned for Dream Reality: Part Four, where we will build The vehicle you will drive from your Be to your Have.

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THIS WEEK'S US-IE

Our Date Night began with dinner at Skewers, a Mediterranean restaurant, and continued with a concert featuring Walter Egan, Firefall, and the Atlantic Rhythm Section. The impressive guitar shredding by ARS made me play air guitar all weekend.

“If you want to reach higher levels of joy, invite music into your daily life.”

And remember...

"IT'S ALL ABOUT YOUR HORMONES!"

"Because when your hormones are optimized, your weight, health, and mind will follow."

🎸 Doc

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The information provided in The Pause newsletter is for educational and informational purposes only. The content is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. The statements made about hormones, weight loss, or any other health-related topics have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA). Always consult with your healthcare provider before making any decisions related to your health, including starting or stopping medications, supplements, or lifestyle changes.